A chronicle of my creations, thoughts, dreams, opinions....A snapshot of moods and moments.....
Saturday, December 30, 2006
LITTLE ANGELS
Friday, December 29, 2006
HEART OF GOLD
Heart of Gold
Tuesday, December 26, 2006
LIFES LIKE THAT
CONTEMPLATE
Sunday, December 24, 2006
Thursday, December 21, 2006
USE IT OR LOSE IT
Its been a while since I have written....that my grey cells need exercise is evident from my previous post....in an attempt to have a regular work-out...okay warm-up at least :)....I am planning to write a short piece daily......Inspiration for the work-outs has been derived from Shoefie, a blogger whose writing I love!....not sure if I will get to the precision of 100 words...but keeping it short is the idea...anyhoo...here is my 1st short piece for your preview...
FATE
It was a late spring evening and the sky was alight. Its goldens and pinks intersected haphazardly and gave it the appearance of a huge modern art painting. Another lonely evening, he thought and let out a loud sigh. As he looked up helplessly, he saw the birds hastily returning to their nests. Of late, everybody seemed to be in a hurry! The twittering of the birds was drowned by the cheer that rose among the group watching the football game. He realised it had been ages since he had played the game.
In the field, Ishaan had the game under his control. Lean, dark with his long mane of black hair, Ishaan appeared like a black stallion cruising the field with the speed of lightening. Ishaan scored the victorious goal and was swept off the ground by his team-mates.
As he looked up from his thoughts towards the loud group, his eyes met Ishaan’s. In a flash they were transported to the cold December night….. Ishaan was at the wheel…. they were on I-95 heading towards the airport to catch their flight to LA…….his next memory was of waking up in the hospital room…..
A sharp pain rose in his heart and he winced as he tried to get up with the help of his crutches……he looked down at his amputated legs…..Ishaan looked up to the heavens…..his mind clogged by memories of the cruel twist of fate..
Monday, December 18, 2006
SAWAI GANDHARVA MUSIC FESTIVAL
Saturday, December 09, 2006
SUCCESS IS GOOD FUN
Dear M,
Cheers to us :)With Love!
Friday, December 01, 2006
HELMET
- Drive safe. Driving rashly not only puts your life at risk but also that of the numerous others who are on the road. I know many examples who have suffered fatalities due to the rash driving of others.
- Respect time. From my own experience I can say that I tend to drive rashly if I am running late. I think about it often. Now when I am running late and driving I tell myself, “Your super time management is causing you to drive rashly and sooner or later you are going to pay for this.” Sometimes the driver in me heeds to this sometimes not. I have learnt that most of the times human beings initiate change only after something bad happens to them. Anyhoo, I am trying!
- Follow traffic rules. “Nobody follows rules. Why should I??? There are more chances of getting hurt if I follow rules!”…yea I can hear you saying that but, surely we can turn around the situation if each one of us thinks otherwise.
- Wear Helmet. (when on a two-wheeler ;)). That is the least that you can do to ensure your safety on the road. Stop giving lame excuses like – I hate to carry it around, ruins my hair, etc. If you can’t, go get yourself a car or take a liking to public transport. I am serious, no kidding.. :)
Tuesday, November 14, 2006
CHILDRENS DAY
Sunday, November 12, 2006
WEAR SUNSCREEN
If that did not seem like interesting advice watch this......Wear Sunscreen
PERSEVERANCE
~Author Unknown
Difficult things take a long time, impossible things a little longer.
~Author Unknown
Don't let the fear of the time it will take to accomplish something stand in the way of your doing it. The time will pass anyway; we might just as well put that passing time to the best possible use.
~Earl Nightingale
Saturday, November 11, 2006
WINTER
Whats your winter like?
Sunday, October 29, 2006
WHEN ITS TIME
Herez a song that says just this....To Everything Turn Turn Turn
Njoy!! :)
Saturday, October 28, 2006
BE OPEN
Tuesday, October 24, 2006
MOUNTAIN QUEEN
CELEBRATE
Anyhoo....herez wishing you a very Happy Diwali!
Cheers! :)
Sunday, October 22, 2006
MISS YOU
Saturday, October 14, 2006
A LIFE OF HARDSHIP
Monday, October 02, 2006
LOHAGAD
Friday, September 22, 2006
Wednesday, August 02, 2006
AND THE WORLD MOVES ON
For her its just another day,
Lots of work and some play,
Big deal! the world moves on….
Success shines and her world is gay,
Big deal! the world moves on….
Her world tumbles into shades of grey,
Big deal! the world moves on….
She stumbles, she rises.
And in the meanwhile, the world moves on….
THE MARS VENUS DIVIDE
They get-together because they have been asked to….
Awkward silence follows the smiles and the small talk….
The party seems like a mundane chore….
Unconsciously they drift apart….
The men engage in shop talk while the women are engrossed in topics they feel are far better than shop-talk…
Dinner is served…. the men are unmindful….the women hurry and try to do justice by nibbling at it…
And so a party ends….
Tuesday, July 25, 2006
GAMES PEOPLE PLAY
NO SHY-GUY
Sunday, July 23, 2006
GUDDI
Saturday, June 17, 2006
Saturday, June 10, 2006
KICK-OFF
Saturday, June 03, 2006
GOD, U THERE?
I had imagined Haridwar and Rishikesh to be small towns with quaint ancient temples. On the contrary these are towns with booming economies. The temples far from ancient are colored in the brightest pinks and yellows. Sanyasi’s dressed in orange seem to be the majority followed by tourists, both from
HUH TAJ
Dinner is a somber affair as news channels cover the story of Pramod Mahajan’s passing away. It is indeed ironic; watching the tragic news of unrequited love in a city that immortalizes that very emotion.
The premises are well maintained. I am glad I don’t spot any litter that seems to be common in any Indian tourist place. We are hailed by another security guard as we are about to walk past the last archway. We need to pay 50 bucks in order to take any footage. We do that with the understanding that we can take our handicam. We soon learn that we have misunderstood; the fee is so you can shoot the TAJ from that last archway. Handicams are banned beyond that archway. I find this silly, but we comply.
- Explore Taj - Courtesy Nandan
Saturday, May 13, 2006
A ROOM WITH A VIEW
Saturday, April 01, 2006
AGILE??..........WILL SURVIVE
Change, accepting change, dealing w/ change, etc. seem to be the buzzwords of our rapidly changing world. Many good books have been written about the same. To successfully survive the changes of time and tide, one needs to accept the fact that change is inevitable and having accepted that, brace oneself to make the best of these oncoming changes.
- Be a good sensor - Know the signs of change and watch out for them.
- Change is always lurking around the corner. Be proactive and try to prepare yourself for the same.
- Change always brings along new opportunities. Look out for these.
- Avoid getting into the comfort-zone of your routine.
- It is natural to fear the insecurity that change brings w/ it. Use this fear positively, to plan for change.
- Renew yourself constantly.
- Be in the company of pro-change people Vs anti-change.
- Play to win; give it your best shot.
- Maintain your self-esteem.
- Never forego your values and morals.
- Being successful is far different and important than just living/existing. Your success not only positively affects you but also society at large.
TEACHINGS OF OSHO
Recently I happened to read “LIFE’S MYSTERIES – An Introduction to the Teachings of Osho”. Never before had I read or listened to the teachings of any spiritual guru – never felt like it. A family friend urged me to read the book, I agreed, partly to sate my curiosity that gossip about Oshoites and the Ashram had created.
It took me a while to finish the small book. Some of Osho’s thoughts made sense to me, some were beyond me, whereas some sort of made sense yet the traditional teachings of my mind did not allow for ready acceptance.
Osho says that all the religions of the world are anti-life and his arguments in this regard were convincing.
Here are my interpretations of some thoughts that I liked and would like to remember.
- Touchstone to differentiate between the important from the unimportant – Anything that can be taken by death is unimportant and that cannot be taken by death is important.
- Don’t be life negative, be life positive. Celebrate life – live life to the fullest.
- Focus on rejoicing instead of renouncing. Focus on the present and live this moment to the fullest.
- Don’t believe in anyone – find your own path and walk on it. Follow your inner voice. When you do so, you will be on the right path. You might stumble along the way, might commit mistakes, but that is alright. In the end all these efforts contribute towards your ultimate growth – no effort is wasted.
- Each individual is unique and each individual life has a beauty in its uniqueness.
- Life’s aim is life itself – more life, better life, higher life, but life always!
- Man ordinarily functions out of the past, out of the knowledge that he has accumulated in the past and thus has standard, mechanical responses. But life is continuously changing. Right and wrong are not fixed entities. So avoid functioning through your past. Act out of awareness. Awareness means being in the present
- Receptivity is the door to the divine; it is a state of no-mind, state of awareness. Being receptive means dropping all the garbage in your mind, like your past. If you can drop this then you become more open, more receptive.
- A man of awareness does not react; he acts or responds. He is responsible. He is his own master and acts according to himself and not by anybody else. Osho gives a beautiful analogy of a mirror to the man who is aware and that of a photoplate to the person who reacts. The difference between a mirror and photoplate is that the former is dynamic whereas the latter is static. Life is dynamic and hence one should try to be a mirror instead of a photoplate.
- Love can be dependent, independent or interdependent. In the 1st two cases it always brings misery and should not be termed as love but as an arrangement. The 3rd case brings happiness because it is when two people are in complete synchronism and this is true love.
- To grow during our life is a choice that we have to make. Osho compares our existence to that of the seed. The seed has the potential to grow and flower, so also we have the potential to grow. The seed is very safe and secure whereas a flower is vulnerable and fragile. People prefer this security over growth and the insecurity associated w/ this process and hence many of us choose to live as seeds and just remain as potentialities.
- Avoid nouns instead emphasize on verbs. So focus on living instead of life.
- Nobody is born for the other. Nobody is born to fulfill your ideals of how a person should be.
- You can give as much as you want, but cannot demand (love for ex.) from the other – nobody is your slave. You have control only on yourself.
- Ego is something that you can feel but that which does not exist. Osho compares it w/ darkness which is nothing but absence of light. To drive away darkness you have to experiment w/ light. Similarly to be egoless you have to raise your level of consciousness.
- Meditation is neither concentration nor contemplation. It is a state of no-thinking or no-mind. Simply put no-mind means that your mind becomes your servant.
- Meditation is when our mind, body and soul are functioning together in rhythm. Any activity that achieves this can be meditation. So running, dancing, singing….all these can be meditations.
- Everybody is born w/ the same potential. Differences arise because we do not use our potential to the same extent. Meditation can make you aware of your potential, can make the passage in which your potential can grow and can find its expression.
- Ego is the root cause of fear in you.
- Fear always exists – about security, safety. When surrounded by such fear, remember this- the only thing that is secure or certain in life is death. Being dead is the ultimate security. So if you want to live, grow then you have to take risks. Don’t be shackled by these exercises of the mind - remember you have nothing to lose. Stop postponement
- Freedom and responsibility are the 2 sides of the same coin. If you want freedom you have to be responsible. Responsibility means that whatever you do it is your response. It is different than duty. When you act out of duty it becomes a burden whereas when you act out of responsibility there is no burden because it is your response.
- The inner (soul) is as real as the outer (body, material aspects), both are equally significant. One has to attain a balance between the two.
Thursday, March 02, 2006
Simbly Z(S)even
Alrighty………I have been tagged……..courtesy Kusum…..so here it goes…. :)
7 things to do before I die:
- Globe trot (….squeeze in road trips and backpacking trips….fly business class)… Okay, if not anything, at least take a trip to Kailash Mansarovar.
- Pamper my family crazy.
- Anger management, learn to be more tolerant.
- Start my own restaurant.
- Be a cool dancer.
- Stop swearing completely.
- Do my bit for old people and/or something related to Indian heritage.
7 things I can't do: (for now…except the last couple )
- Prepare Bhakri. (yumm….my favorite.)
- Write poetry.
- Think w/ my head instead of heart when required.
- Tinker w/ gadgets and stuff.
- Initiate and carry on a nerdy conversation.
- Swim.
- Be false.
7 things I always say:
- Tch….or Mtch….
- Whateverr!
- I’m hungry….
- I mean…
- Like Helloow…
- Cool….
- Anyhoo…..
7 books I have loved:
- Love Story
- The 7 spiritual laws of success
- The Monk who sold his Ferrari
- Time Machine
- A Cup of Comfort for Friends
- arab bhASheteel suras va chamatkaarik kathA
- badalata bhArat
7 things I get attracted to:
- Nature
- Rain
- Smells - Cologne/after shave, earth after the first rain, warm spicy food.
- Good vegetarian food.
- People - Creative, Funny, Good cooks, Philosophers, Achievers, people like me ;)
Sorry can’t think of more….
7 movies I love to watch over and over: (Well not over and over…’coz I am not a movie buff…..but I could modify this to movies I have enjoyed)
- Life is Beautiful
- Iqbal
- Dumb and Dumber
- Austin Powers
- Terminal
Sorry can’t think of more….
1 Person I am tagging
KNOWING DOING GAP
I think this post has been procrastinated enough. It all started a couple of months ago, when I mentioned a Marathi proverb to my Dad, that when literally translated means “I KNOW, but, I can’t DO”. Dad mentioned a book titled “The Knowing-Doing Gap” at the time and even got me a copy in the next few days. I was intrigued by the topic/title. For sometime then I had been thinking about things like “What motivates people?”, “Knowing-doing gaps in our personal and professional lives”, etc. I started reading the book to validate my analysis of why this knowing-doing gap exists. Although, the book was focused on knowing-doing gaps in organizations; the reason behind their existence and ways of overcoming the same, it made an interesting read. You should be able to find the book summary by googling the title and hence I will not mention that in this post. Instead I will focus my attention on my original thought; “Why do knowing-doing gaps exist in our personal and professional lives?”
Some sample KNOWs –
- I KNOW I need to lose weight.
- I KNOW I should not carry work home and vice-a-versa.
- I KNOW I need to exercise regularly.
- I KNOW I need to plan my finances and make the right investments.
- I KNOW I need to improve on my listening.
- I KNOW I need to learn that new technology that is hot in the job market currently.
Here are some factors that I have identified. I would love to hear your thoughts on the same.
- You KNOW because you are told.
I think that this is one of the most important factors. Do you truly believe that you need to DO or is an external entity directing you to DO? Unless one is convinced about the KNOW, DO cannot happen. For ex. You KNOW you need to lose weight, but that is because people say you should.
- Inertia/Who wants to leave the Comfort-Zone!
Many times the pleasure of being in one’s established comfort-zone is more alluring than the efforts involved in the DO.
- Fear
Fear of change during the DO. Previous failed attempts or negative information from external sources can also prevent us from DOING.
- Lack of motivation
- Analysis Paralysis
Does one devote time for self-analysis? Is the DOING Vs the KNOWING measured, tracked?
- Lack of momentum
Often times one starts off enthusiastically, but falls back at some point of time. I guess lack of measurement makes the failure difficult to be attributable to this lack of momentum or any other specific factors.
Anyhoo, I know I just surmounted one gap! (I KNOW I need to write a post on the knowing-doing gap.)